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Category: The Single Diaries

  • Must Love Dogs: What To Consider Before Adopting a Pet

    Mother of French bulldog Lucy shares the questions to ask yourself if you want to adopt a pet

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    It all began after I saw the movie Due Date. I started off with a mild curiosity for French bulldogs (or “Frenchies,” if you are in the know)—looking at pictures online, researching breeders of show-dog quality Frenchies (only the best would do!), following funny Frenchies on Instagram and watching YouTube videos. Then after about six months I was in full-blown obsession mode. I was ready to get a dog. That Christmas my family gave me Lucy, the cutest white Frenchie in the whole world. If you ignore that she only listens half the time, knows a total of two tricks (“sit” and “high five”) and has severe allergies, she could be an award-winning show dog she’s so cute!

    Since you are reading this post, I can assume you are thinking about getting a dog. If so, here are some things to consider prior to making the commitment. The more research and thought you put into it in the beginning, the happier you and your little puppy will be. Welcome to motherhood…  kinda!
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  • What I Love About My Little City | Bellingham, WA

    What I Love About My Little City | Bellingham, WA

    Allison Dolle shares the joys of Little City Living with The Single Diaries

     

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    Every month we profile a single girl and the city she calls home. New York City kicked off our series, followed by Philadelphia and Chicago. While we love our big cities, we thought it was time to give credit to the simpler life. From the closeness of a tight-knit community to the get-back-to-nature vibe, there are advantages to living outside of big urban cores. If you’ve ever thought about moving to a smaller city or are looking for a unique destination for your next girls trip, read on for an insider perspective on life in a little city in Washington state.

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  • The Power in Power Couples

    The Single Diaries tackles the question of what makes “power couples” unique

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    PHOTOS: NY Daily News, Fanpop, Salon, NPR.

    As you know, a lady can be “superbly single” whether she’s single or in a relationship. Let’s talk about the ultimate independent women with plus ones: one half of the power couples. Movements by themselves but forces when they’re together, power couples are made up of two stand-alone powerhouses. We love them. We want to be them. So what’s their secret? Here’s our take on the elusive power couple.

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  • How To Meet Friends After College

    How To Meet Friends After College

    The Single Diaries points you in the right direction to meet your post-grad BFF

    PHOTO: Stephanie Rausser.
    PHOTO: Stephanie Rausser.

    You may have heard that in your 20s, you start to lose friends… Someone moves away. Someone enters a relationship. You no longer share the same interests. Life happens. Your social life doesn’t have to end there. In fact, we’ve found that you can actually meet people more easily and can spot potential friendships more quickly during this time in your life. It just takes the extra effort of putting yourself out there, but once you step out of your comfort zone you’re golden. Here are a few activities you can sign up for to meet friends after college, plus some tips to keep in mind along the way.

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  • Creating Your Vision Board

    The Single Diaries Step-by-Step Guide to Vision Board Building

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    Growing up it was a tradition in my family to spend New Year’s Eve writing down our individual and family goals for the coming year. We’d meticulously tick through all of the important topics—health, travel, education, career… until we’d exhausted our lists. I kept my list in an old school notebook while my parents captured theirs on a loose piece of paper they’d pin up on their bedroom mirror. At the culmination of our list building we’d pull out our list from the year before and check off each of the goals we’d successfully completed.

    As time went on our list-building exercise evolved into vision board building. Rather than simply tucking our goals away on paper that drew little attention throughout the year, we captured them with pictures glued to a poster board. My parents kept the board posted up so we could see our goals every day. The idea was that the more we saw our goals, the more likely we were to see them realized.

    I always loved this annual ritual of ours especially revisiting the prior year’s goals and seeing how many things and seemingly, magically, come true. Books like, The Secret, and even Oprah Winfrey preach the practice of vision board building… attributing the “magic” that helps our goals come to fruition to a physical law of attraction that draws what we put out into the universe back to us. In this case, the act of putting our goals into a vision board is the act of letting the universe know what it is we want to attract.

    Towards the end of college, I picked back up my family’s tradition and began building my own vision board at the beginning of each new year. Though it takes some planning ahead, the practice helps me start my year imagining all that is possible and getting focused on making it happen. And surely enough, every time I revisit previous boards I see that most of my visions have come true. Call it magic, the law of attraction, or whatever you will, I do believe there is power in articulating, capturing, and keeping your goals in front of you that allows them to actualize.

    Intrigued? Read on for The Single Diaries’ guide to creating a vision board of your own. (more…)