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Author: Jen A. Miller

  • How To Meet Friends After College

    How To Meet Friends After College

    The Single Diaries points you in the right direction to meet your post-grad BFF

    PHOTO: Stephanie Rausser.
    PHOTO: Stephanie Rausser.

    You may have heard that in your 20s, you start to lose friends… Someone moves away. Someone enters a relationship. You no longer share the same interests. Life happens. Your social life doesn’t have to end there. In fact, we’ve found that you can actually meet people more easily and can spot potential friendships more quickly during this time in your life. It just takes the extra effort of putting yourself out there, but once you step out of your comfort zone you’re golden. Here are a few activities you can sign up for to meet friends after college, plus some tips to keep in mind along the way.

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  • Creating Your Vision Board

    The Single Diaries Step-by-Step Guide to Vision Board Building

    Vision Board How To

    Growing up it was a tradition in my family to spend New Year’s Eve writing down our individual and family goals for the coming year. We’d meticulously tick through all of the important topics—health, travel, education, career… until we’d exhausted our lists. I kept my list in an old school notebook while my parents captured theirs on a loose piece of paper they’d pin up on their bedroom mirror. At the culmination of our list building we’d pull out our list from the year before and check off each of the goals we’d successfully completed.

    As time went on our list-building exercise evolved into vision board building. Rather than simply tucking our goals away on paper that drew little attention throughout the year, we captured them with pictures glued to a poster board. My parents kept the board posted up so we could see our goals every day. The idea was that the more we saw our goals, the more likely we were to see them realized.

    I always loved this annual ritual of ours especially revisiting the prior year’s goals and seeing how many things and seemingly, magically, come true. Books like, The Secret, and even Oprah Winfrey preach the practice of vision board building… attributing the “magic” that helps our goals come to fruition to a physical law of attraction that draws what we put out into the universe back to us. In this case, the act of putting our goals into a vision board is the act of letting the universe know what it is we want to attract.

    Towards the end of college, I picked back up my family’s tradition and began building my own vision board at the beginning of each new year. Though it takes some planning ahead, the practice helps me start my year imagining all that is possible and getting focused on making it happen. And surely enough, every time I revisit previous boards I see that most of my visions have come true. Call it magic, the law of attraction, or whatever you will, I do believe there is power in articulating, capturing, and keeping your goals in front of you that allows them to actualize.

    Intrigued? Read on for The Single Diaries’ guide to creating a vision board of your own. (more…)

  • Start Your New Year with a Smile

    Single Girl Obsessions to Get Your New Year Started on the Right Foot

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    via knowyourmeme.com

    The New Year begins with so many good intentions. We feel optimistic about our futures. Prepared to take on the world. If winter has us down, the New Year surely lifts our spirits high and makes our futures seem brighter than ever.

    I’ve heard many times from different people that the way you start a year is the way you’ll end it. If that’s the case, I hope we all start our year off with smiles on our faces and a happiness that sticks with us all year long.

    In fact just to make sure this is the case, TSD has rounded up a list of fun finds that are sure to bring you a smile. In no particular order, we bring to you 10 Single Girl Obsessions that keep us beaming.

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  • Winter Hair Survival Guide

    Winter Air Can Be Rough on Hair. TSD Has Your Toolkit to Get Your Tresses Through the Stresses.

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    Dry winter air can certainly do a number on a girl’s hair. The mix of sunshine reflecting off snowdrifts, wintery winds whipping our hair into a knotted whirl, and icy rain and snow can leave our hair brittle and broken. Luckily, the right preventative measures, products, and tools can ward off the threat of bad hair days.

    In my former life with P&G I worked on two different hair product brands, spent a considerable amount of time working alongside stylists, and learned some insider secrets on proper hair care. I picked up a few tips on tricks for making it through the winter months. TSD’s Winter Hair Survival Guide will help you build your own toolkit of the products and tools you need to keep your hair looking hydrated and healthy.

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  • 2014: Start with the (Wo)man in the Mirror

    The Single Girl’s Guide to New Year’s Resolutions

    PHOTO: Posh on a Budget.

    Welcome to 2014! As we transition into the new year, take time to reflect on 2013 and consider how you can grow in the coming months.

    A resolution is usually something you set for yourself to make your life a little lighter, happier, and better. In that sense, it’s kind of like a diet. Sometimes you need a quick fix for a special occasion, but in order to sustain a better body you need to change the way you eat on a regular basis. While part of your resolution can include definitive goals, think about shifting something in your life to continue moving toward happiness. Read on for our tips to stay on track throughout the year and to hear about how we’re planning to make 2014 the best year yet!

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